Is There a Proven Method To Get Your Wife Back After Separation?
You have the Right to be Skeptical
In a perfectly rational and scientific world we need proof for every claim that people make, advice on saving your marriage is no exception. In fact It is very important to be skeptical, in your search to find an actual
Survey: Males, which one of these do you agree with?
I know there is a lot to read, you don’t have to. maybe skim over just a few. I am writing an essay on male and female stereotypes, and it would really be helpful if you could point out a few that may be true for you and some that are total BS. Thanks!
1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.
2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
3. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him
5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they’re going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-he… method.
6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.
8. Guys don’t care how gorgeous you are, if you’re a *********– Goodbye.
9. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind..” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
10. Girls are guys’ weaknesses.
11. Guys are very open about themselves.
12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
14. Guys love you more than you love them.
15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot.
16. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.
17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.
18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn’t notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.
20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he’s probably faking it and is spazzing inside.
21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.” but if he said he doesnt want to talk about it, give him a day or 2 and he will come out
23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.
24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don’t say you aren’t. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don’t want you to disagree with them.
25. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he’s definitely thinking something.
26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
27. Don’t be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.
31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He’s just too stubborn to admit it.
32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of them.
33. They love it when girls talk about their boobs.
34. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually
35. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs
36. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts lol
37. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.
38. Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probaly still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life.
39.Usually (not all the time) it’s the guys who have all the millions of girlfriends how treat you bad, most of the “less popular” guys will treat you better.
40.Sometime men appreciate the burden being taken off of them. If you like someone… tell them. Otherwise nothing ever materializes from your feelings.! Most guys like it when girls ask them out
I didn’t read all of them, but 33 is definitely BS.
Need puppy training advice please!?
Hi all,
So I’m raising my 11 week old English Bulldog using positive training methods. He has proven to be pretty smart and has already learned sit and lay.
I’m having trouble in 2 areas: potty training (which is getting better) and biting (which this post is about).
I raised a boxer before, and was told if he gets overly aggressive to put him on his back and not let him up until he submits. He is now 7 years old and one of the most gentle 83 lbs (big frame, not overweight) dogs you could ever meet.
My Bulldog is still very young, but he nips constantly. For the most part I can tell it’s him socializing, and if he gets too rough I say “no bite” and leave the room for a little while – but that’s proven pretty ineffective. When I say “no bite” and hold him away and he gets into a mode where he is more aggressive and looking to “fight” rather than “flight,” there has been a couple times I have held him down on his back to try to get him to submit.
Tonight he got into one of these moods and I used this technique 3 times in a row. He goes from kicking and trying to bite, to growling, then to whining. It’s usually when he is whining that I release the small amount of pressure and rub his stomach (which he loves) saying “good boy” – but then he came back at me.
Finally after the third (and longest) submission session he got up, walked by without biting and laid down with his head down, to reinforce it was OK to be submissive I gave him one of his favorite treats and he has been very good since.
Does this method go complete against the positive reinforcement training? Will it confuse him further? I feel like he is definitely testing who is the head of the household, but he seems to listen to my girlfriend more who has never tried making him submit, but usually feeds him (which is the thing he loves most).
Any advice?
Thanks in advance!
GUYS-I saw this in one of the answers, and since a girl wrote it, idk if its true so from a guys perspective..?
what do you think?
now i know not ALLL of them are true [obviously] but im just curious, if not all, then which ones are? I read through them on someone else’s question and i read some that i would LIKE to be true haha. [sorry this is long, you dont have to look through them ALL]
1. Guys are more emotional than you think, if they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.
2. Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
3. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.
5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they’re goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-he… method.
6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.
8. Guys don’t care how gorgeous you are, if you’re a b****– Goodbye.
9. Giving a guy a hanging message like ‘You know what?!..uh…nevermind..’ would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
10. Girls are guys’ weaknesses.
11. Guys are very open about themselves.
12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
14. Guys love you more than you love them.
15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot.
16. No matter how much guys talk about butts and boobs, personality is key.
17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.
18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn’t notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.
20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he’s probably faking it and is spazzing inside.
21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, ‘Please come and listen to me.’
23. ,b>If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.
24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don’t say you aren’t. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don’t want you to disagree with them.
25. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he’s definitely thinking something.
26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
27. Don’t be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.
31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He’s just too stubborn to admit it.
32. Not all guys are jerks. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of them.
33. They love it when girls talk about their boobs. haha it’s true..
34. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually
35. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.
36. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets y ou keep doing it ..it mean s that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.
37. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.
38. Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life.
Please don’t use the “submissive roll-over” technique, where you roll the dog over onto his back. It makes dogs feel vulnerable and fearful of you. The difference between this puppy and your old dog is personality. Rolling him onto his back will only scare him.
You should teach him a positive habit to counter biting, like licking, and reinforce licking with a special treat. Slather some honey or peanut butter on your hand, and let him lick it off. Give him plenty of praise, and eventually he will understand that licking gains him much more love and positive attention.
If he bites you, continue to say “no bite” in a firm, low voice, and stand up, turn away, and fold your arms. If this does not work, instead of saying “no bite” make it clear to him that this is painful to you by saying “ow.” Make sure you say it in a way that shows you have been hurt, and draw away from him. I used this technique with my westie when he would nip me excitedly, and it was very effective.
Your girlfriend is the one who primarily feeds him? Dogs usually think of the leader as the one who provides food for them the most. (Trust me, I did all the training for my puppy, but my mom always fed him. He likes her much more than me now.) Also, make sure your puppy is being fed after you yourself has eaten. This asserts your dominance as the leader and higher ranking members of the pack always eat first.
I used all of these positive training techniques on my miniature dachshund when he was a puppy, and he has never nipped or bitten anyone since, even during play. I hope this helps! Good luck with your bulldog puppy, and I hope you have many good years to come.
Your Views?
So here I am taking time out of my busy schedule to let you and maybe a few other people know that I disagree with McDonalds’s cynical threats. The following text regards my complaints of recent days against McDonalds and its subtle but refractory attempts to concentrate all the wealth of the world into its own hands. I’ve repeatedly pointed out to McDonalds that it has been repeating its lies so often and so loudly that they’re beginning to drown out the truth. That apparently didn’t register with it, though. Oh, well; I guess I plan to stop McDonalds’s encroachments on our heritage. This is a choice I have made; your choice is up to you. But let me remind you that McDonalds refuses to come to terms with reality. It prefers instead to live in a fantasy world of rationalization and hallucination.
I once tried to explain to McDonalds that its ballyhoos will substitute breast-beating and schwarmerei for action and honest debate. Rather than feel ashamed of itself, McDonalds got angry at me. What this says is that it is hardly surprising that McDonalds wants to transform our whole society to suit its own vitriolic interests. After all, this is the same cheeky drunk whose noxious prattle informed us that everyone who doesn’t share its beliefs is a ridiculous practitioner of scapegoatism deserving of death and damnation. McDonalds’s moral immaturity is a perilous failing and an insult to the celebrated virtues of our ancestors. Hard to believe? Then consider the following statement from one of McDonalds’s parasitic worshippers: “The majority of spleeny, ill-bred psychics are heroes, if not saints.” Pretty debauched, huh? Well, McDonalds is an unsavory lumpenproletariat. I use that label only when it’s true. If you don’t believe it is, then consider that most people want to be nice; they want to be polite; they don’t want to give offense. And because of this inherent politeness, they step aside and let McDonalds use every conceivable form of diplomacy, deception, pressure, coercion, bribery, treason, and terror to retain an institution which, twist and turn as you like, is and remains a disgrace to humanity.
I, hardheaded cynic that I am, unquestionably hope that the truth will prevail and that justice will be served before McDonalds does any real damage. Or is it already too late? There aren’t enough hours in the day to fully answer that question but consider this: McDonalds has come up with proven methods to create an untrue and injurious impression of an entire people. All you have to do is let your guard down. McDonalds is not just pertinacious; it’s uninformed, too.
While I don’t question McDonalds’s motives, and I certainly understand the frustrations of its comrades, it justifies its jealous deeds with fallacious logical arguments based on argumentum ad baculum. In case you’re unfamiliar with the term, it means that if we don’t accept McDonalds’s claim that incontinent fribbles are all inherently good, sensitive, creative, and inoffensive then it will slander those who are most systematically undervalued, underpaid, underemployed, underfinanced, underinsured, underrated, and otherwise underserved and undermined as undeserving and underclass. This is particularly interesting when you consider that every time McDonalds tells its vicegerents that salacious vermin are easily housebroken, their eyes roll into the backs of their heads as they become mindless receptacles of unsubstantiated information, which they accept without question. If McDonalds honestly believes that some of my points are not valid, I would love to get some specific feedback from it. I like to think I’m a reasonable person but you just can’t reason with hidebound gasbags. It’s been tried. They don’t understand, they can’t understand, they don’t want to understand, and they will die without understanding why all we want is for them not to convert our children to cultural zombies in a mass of unthinking and easily herded proletarian cattle.
Regardless of whether we consider McDonalds a lunatic, an evil aggressor, or whatever, its values are so inverted, they would make Lewis Carroll blush. It may mean well but it has been trying hard to protect what has become a lucrative racket for it. Unfortunately, that lucrative racket has a hard-to-overlook consequence: it will encourage a deadly acceptance of intolerance when you least expect it. Many of us do not wish to live within McDonalds’s walls of prætorianism. Do I blame society for this? No, I blame McDonalds. Too many emotions to count raced through my mind when I first realized that McDonalds attracts short-sighted backbiters to its philistinism movement by telling them that one can understand the elements of a scientific theory only by reference to the social condition and personal histories of the scientists involved. I suppose the people to whom it tells such things just want to believe lies that make them feel intellectually and spiritually superior to others. Whether or not that’s the case, I have to laugh when McDonalds says that it can see to it that all patriotic endeavors are directed down blind alleys where they end in frustration and discouragement and get away with it. Where in the world did it get that idea? Not only does that idea contain absolutely no substance whatsoever but it frequently avers its support of democracy and its love of freedom. But one need only look at what it is doing — as opposed to what it is saying — to understand its true aims.
I think we can truly say that given a choice of having McDonalds rot our minds with the hallucinatory drug of totalitarianism or having my bicuspids extracted sans Novocaine, I would embrace the pliers, purchase some Polident Partials, and call it a day. Does McDonalds really know anything about the pranks it claims to support? No, it doesn’t. I mean, McDonalds keeps stating over and over again that the Eleventh Commandment is, “Thou shalt elevate McDonalds’s assertions to prominence as epistemological principles”. This drumbeat refrain is clearly not consistent with the facts on the ground — facts such as that if McDonalds can’t stand the heat, it should get out of the kitchen.
For the nonce, McDonalds is content to cashier anyone who tries to give our young people the values that will inspire them to shelter initially unpopular truths from suppression, enabling them to ultimately win out through competition in the marketplace of ideas. But by the end of the decade, it will install a puppet government that pledges allegiance to its truculent retinue. If McDonalds were as bright as it thinks it is, it’d know that I recommend paying close attention to the praxeological method developed by the economist Ludwig von Mises and using it as a technique to find the inner strength to show you, as dispassionately as possible, what kind of squalid thoughts McDonalds is thinking about these days. The praxeological method is useful in this context because it employs praxeology, the general science of human action, to explain why ever since McDonalds decided to turn back the clock and repeal all the civil rights and anti-discrimination legislation now on the books, its consistent, unvarying line has been that it is a spokesman for God. McDonalds dismisses its critics as either servants of an existing power structure or as suffering from false consciousness. Don’t make the mistake of thinking otherwise. McDonalds does, and that’s why if we are to prescribe a course of action, then we must be guided by a healthy and progressive ideology, not by the deceitful and savage ideologies that McDonalds promotes.
Still, we shouldn’t jump to conclusions, even though it is a known fact that it is easy to see faults in others. But it takes perseverance to change the world for the better. In the Old Testament, the Book of Kings relates how the priests of Baal were slain for deceiving the people. I’m not suggesting that there be any contemporary parallel involving McDonalds, but McDonalds has delivered exactly the opposite of what it had previously promised us. Most notably, its vows of liberation turned out to be masks for oppression and domination. And, almost as troubling, McDonalds’s vows of equality did little more than convince people that McDonalds finds reality too difficult to swallow. Or maybe it just gets lost between the sports and entertainment pages. In either case, sometime in the future McDonalds will establish a world government complete with a world army, a world parliament, a world court, and numerous other agencies that suck up to the worst types of mawkish Neanderthals there are. Fortunately, that hasn’t happened…yet. But it will undoubtedly happen if we don’t push a consistent vision that responds to most people’s growing fears about foolish airheads.
McDonalds’s causing all sorts of problems for us. We must grasp these problems with both hands and deal with them in a forthright way. As I see it, McDonalds has planted its expositors everywhere. You can find them in businesses, unions, activist organizations, tax-exempt foundations, professional societies, movies, schools, churches, and so on. Not only does this subversive approach enhance McDonalds’s ability to silence critical debate and squelch creative brainstorming but it also provides irrefutable evidence that it is offended by the truth. So what’s the connection between that and its codices? The connection is that McDonalds’s reason is not true reason. It does not seek the truth but only uncongenial answers, petulant resolutions to conflicts.
If the mass news media were actually in the business of covering news rather than molding public attitudes to befuddle the public and make sin seem like merely a sophisticated fashion, they would honestly report that people tell me that McDonalds should exercise greater judiciousness when extolling vigilantism. And the people who tell me this are correct, of course. My mother always told me, “If you don’t have something intelligent to say, just keep quiet.” Apparently, McDonalds’s mother never told it that. Lastly, I myself can’t end this letter without mentioning that McDonalds’s camp is reminiscent of the French Jacobin Club and its morbid obsession with power, death, and interdenominationalism.
1 truish
2 gonna say doubt most
3 ….different kind of crazys
4 immature ones maybe
5 gonna say true
6 understandable, but not 100% true
7 define often
8 this is when one would quote the “hit it and quit it” methodology
9 uhm cant say i agree
10 mostly true. one way or another.
11 …have you ever met a man? thats not fair… um define “open” and “themselves”
12 half true. some times we just gotta vent
13 again, depends on relative maturity level
14 this is one of those chain email thingies isnt it? i hope youre realizing the time and thought im putting into each one of these little factoids for you. a lonely woman probably produced this statement
15 dont believe that. vocabulary isnt a very good indicator. some people just like those words better. i personally do not like the word anthology. i feel like im spitting when i say it
16 for a relationship. yes.
17 not openly
18 i do….
19 i do….
20 not always true! he could be under the influence of illegal substances
21 i dunno, i hear ‘this girl is driving me crazy’ in many different contexts
22 NO. dont believe that. thats how the term domestic violence came to popularized. not saying its good, or right, or acceptable. on the contrary, i believe it is a terrible thing. however, dont always assume leave me alone is a cry for help. guys dont wrap hidden meanings up in words the way that many females do.
23 always listen when hes talking! is it cool when a guy ignores a girl most of the time? you cant seriously believe females are always serious do you?
24 yes, but not for that reason. if a guy tells you something like that, he means it, and its not easy, and when you say no, its like youre trying to pry it out of him over and over
25 eh… very circumstantial.
26 duh
27 or be like ‘youre a bitch’ and not be interested
28 i dont believe that. me and my guy friends never talk about who we want to have ‘a relationship’ with. feelings, are a touchy subject.
29 yes to the first part, but no to the second.
30 UH NO. i like my nuts and so does every guy out there
31 youd be surprised…guys often manage the troubles of their ladys as well
32 thats a nod to what should be obvious
33 thats a toughie…
34 yeap. id agree to that.
35 every person is unique. i doubt that would work on me.
36 i dont know, no one has ever rubbed mah neck before
37 i guess i could agree to that
38 again, very circumstantial
this was written by a woman for women. and it took me like 15 minutes to answer all of those, so i hope your happy.
Could you be a genuine redneck?
Redneck Etiquette – DRIVING ETIQUETTE
Dim your headlights for approaching vehicles, even if the gun is loaded and the deer is in sight.
When approaching a four-way stop, the vehicle with the largest tires always has the right of way.
Never tow another car using pantyhose and duct tape.
When sending your wife down the road with a gas can, it is impolite to ask her to bring back beer.
Never relieve yourself from a moving vehicle, especially when driving.
Do not remove the seats from the car so that all your kids can fit in.
Do not lay rubber while traveling in a funeral procession.
PERSONAL HYGIENE
Unlike clothes and shoes, a toothbrush should never be a hand-me-down item.
If you have to vacuum the bed, it’s time to change the sheets.
While ears need to be cleaned regularly, this is a job that should be done in private using one’s OWN truck keys.
Plucking unwanted nose hair is time-consuming work. A cigarette lighter and a small tolerance for pain can accomplish the same goal and save hours.
Note: Its a good idea to keep a bucket of water handy when using this method.
DINING OUT
Remember to leave a generous tip for good service. After all, their mobile home costs just as much as yours.
Redneck Etiquette – ENTERTAINING IN YOUR HOME
A centerpiece for the table should never be anything prepared by a taxidermist.
Do not allow the dog to eat at the table . . . no matter how good his manners are.
If your dog falls in love with a guest’s leg, have the decency to leave them alone for a few minutes.
DATING (Outside the Family)
Always offer to bait your date’s hook, especially on the first date.
Be aggressive. Let her know you are interested: “I’ve been wanting to go out with you since I read that stuff on the men’s bathroom wall two years a go.”
If a girl’s name does not appear regularly on a bathroom wall, water tower, or an overpass, odds are good that the date will end in frustration.
THEATER ETIQUETTE
Crying babies should be taken to the lobby and picked up immediately after the movie has ended.
Refrain from talking to characters on the screen. Tests have proven they can’t hear you.
WEDDINGS
Livestock is usually a poor choice for a wedding gift.
Its is not okay for the groom to bring a date to a wedding.
When dancing, never remove undergarments, no matter how hot it is.
A bridal veil made of window screen is not only cost effective but also aproven fly deterrent.
For the groom, at least rent a tux. A leisure suit with a cummerbund and a clean bowling shirt can create a natty appearance. Though uncomfortable, say yes to socks and shoes for this special occasion.
TIPS FOR ALL OCCASIONS
Never take a beer to a job interview or ask if they press charges.
Always identify people in your yard before shooting at them.
Always say “Excuse me” after getting sick in someone else’s car.
It’s considered tacky to take a cooler to church.
Even if you’re certain that you are included in the will, it’s considered tacky to drive a U-Haul to the funeral home.
The socially refined never fish coins out of public toilets, especially if other people are around.
Always provide an alibi to the police for family members.
Ya’ll Come Back Now, Ya hear?
They only pay $8 to $10 an hour, dude. GET OVER IT! They are like any other mega conglomerate, all caucasian board membered, profit mongering greed-induced US company that wants their inferior hyped up product flooding the market of every country on the planet! I haven’t been inside their doors in years. I like their orange flavored soda because of it’s individual taste, the cookies, the salads and the fish sandwich without their tartar. My lunch hour is spent at a corner bar eating burgers and fries (1/2 serving) and washing them all down with a brew! I laugh at these companies. They have some master chefs coming up with new ideas for food products and by the time it reaches the neighborhood Mickey Dees, it’s this washed to shore sandwich or salad.
Yessir that sounds like the little ol town I live in. Toothbrush takes on a whole new meaning up here. I mean you can really put a shinin on that tooth with one of them things. I did see a gal up here that had TWO tooths.
She drew a crowd every time she went to the wal mart. She was proud of them things. Always ready to show em. No what I mean?