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why did we break up, me or him?
This is like the stupidest but here goes. We were friends for a year and he tells me that his wife cheated on him all the time. I told him to move on or if he didnt want to leave have an open relationship. Time goes on and he tells me hes in love w me. At first I gave him a no then finally, after sometime I tell him I love him too. He leaves her, we move in together but it was so hard to get over the lie I looked in his phone and found that hed been sexting some random girl where we work (while I was living with him) and then found 2 pics of his x’s tits on his phone both dated from when I lived with him & helped him raise his kids. I of course yelled about the pictures and smacked his hand 2 x’s then as he was leaving the apartment I pushed his hand off the door & locked it.
He broke up with me because I am too violent, jealous & complain too much.
I did complain about stresses but never in a way to make him feel bad. After we break up he goes out of his way to give me his new cell number by texting me & then we argue 1 night that he just wants to be my best friend again & mmaybe we’ll get back together someday but no guarantees.
What is going on I’m so freakin confused because aside from this crap we were truly bestfriends and really do love eachother very much.
Edit or how do you think of this part of the story?
My choice
I laughed as I took the little package form Eric’s hand.
“Come one,” Jasmine urged. “Try a little bit of it.”
“Lilith, don’t be such a wimp.” Eric said. “I guarantee you’ll like it.”
I looked at the small clear package in my hand. The powder inside was clear with hints of white. I poured a little of it into my hand. I smiled at the others around me and placed my head down to take the crystal meth. It took all of my self control to not spit the content back out. It tasted bitter, similar to burnt plastic.
I coughed and took a slip of my pop.
“How was it?” Jasmine asked. “Was it nice?”
“Simply amazing.” I told her.
“Here,” Eric said shoving me with an orange drink. “It goes way better with this.”
I took it from his hastily and took a slip. It was tangy and tastes like citrus, but has a bitter aftertaste.
“What’s this?” I questioned.
“You like it don’t you?” He said. “It has some rum in it to spice up the flavour.”
I tried my best to grin. I set the cocktail down, leaned in towards him and whispered that I was going to the washroom.
I made my way through the crowd of people dancing to the loud music. The washroom was located on the other side of the house. After squirming through many people, I reached the washroom and locked the door shut.
I looked at the mirror and saw someone I didn’t recognized. This girl was dressed in an extremely low cut tank top and a black skirt that rested just above her thighs. Her face was covered in makeup.
I sighed. It wasn’t my first time coming to a party like this. I should be use to this by now, but I wasn’t. I was never the type of party girl, but all my friends pressured me to do things I didn’t want.
Tonight was the first time I had tried drugs; also the first time I had tried alcohol. I tried to shake the bad creeping over me. Tonight I came to party, not to whine in a bathroom. I fixed my makeup and stepped back into the party.
Eric was leaning against the wall across from the bathroom. When he saw me came out, he straightened up.
He grabbed me by the waist and led me to the back of the house. There Jasmine was waiting for us.
“Lilith,“ Eric said, “You don’t seem that happy tonight.”
“That’s why we’re going to help you get back into party mood.” Jasmine spoke.
Jasmine handed me a glass filled with brown liquid.
“Drink this.” She said, “It’s going to make you feel way better.”
“What’s this?” I asked suspiciously.
“It’s coke, you silly.” Jasmine said, “Drink it.”
I took a sip. It tasted like coke, but there was something different about it. I took another couple sips.
“See,” Eric said, “Doesn’t that make you feel much happier? It has a load of meth placed into it.”
Crystal Meth? Was that the reason why it tasted different? Before I could say anything, the two dragged me into the dance floor.
After several minutes of moving my body to no particular tempo, I started to feel my mood lift. I started to have fun; to dance wildly around.
Eric and Jasmine kept passing my drugs and taking them myself. I was happy and I wasn’t thinking of anything. I had everything I wanted. The world was spinning and I was joyful. The next thing I knew, I fainted.
I woke up starring at the blank white ceiling. I didn’t know where I was and my head was pounding like crazy. I tried to sit up, but I couldn’t. My body was weak.
“She’s awake.” Someone said. I couldn’t identify the voice.
“Honey,” Another soft voice spoke, “Lilith, are you okay?” I recognized the voice of the mother.
I tried to speak, but my mouth was too dry. I only made wheezy whisper.
“She needs some water.” The doctor said and passed me a glass. I tried to take it from him, but I could only raise a finger.
My mother helped support while I drink greedily from the clear cup.
Afterwards, they left me all alone to rest. It gave me some time to recall what happened before.
I had taken too much drugs and passed out.
I thought about my life up until then.
It was tough holding your social status through high school. To outsiders I was a popular, sexy girl with tons of friends. Boys loved my and girls envied me. No one really knew the way I actually felt.
I hated being alone. I did everything I could to move up in the social hierarchy of the high school.
Tears rolled down my face as I thought about all the bad things I did. I regretted everything I’ve done. Hurting all the people I loved with my stupid decision. Apparently Eric and Jasmine died from the overdose.
From that day on I promised myself to change my ways. I never wanted to wake up again in a hospital because of my stupidity. From that day forward, I tried in school and made it into university. Now, I’m a successful teacher teaching youth the rights and wrongs of the society. One bad decision could ruin your life.
What do you think. Please edit this for me too. <3
At the part, Boys love my, it needs to be me. Also don’t make Lilith sound…I guess too popular if you get my meaning otherwise it was great!
Military career or not? What should we do?
Here’s the deal…my wonderful husband is in the military. He is an E5 and testing for E6 in a few days. The highest rank an airman can be is an E9. So he’s obviously got some rank on him. Here’s our dilemma. His term is up in December 09. At that point he will have been in for 11 years. We are trying to decide what is best for us. We can’t decide whether or not we should re-enlist or not. If he does re-enlist we will only have nine more years before he can retire if he wants and collect that lovely paycheck every month. Not to mention the free medical and dental for our family for life. But this also means that I am out of a job or at least a career. I would have to work doing something but I would just take a job that wasn’t a career path and just more or less a way to make some money. The other option we have is for him to get out and then me take over my fathers business. I would probably make around $70,000 per year but I would also be a full time career woman. This has never been my dream. I have always dreamt of being a mommy that works not a working mommy. You know? Another dilemma for that would be my man would then be the one who takes any old job here and there that he can. What do we do???
Military Career
Pros
Only nine more years
Medical and dental benefits for life.
The chance to see the world perhaps.
A guaranteed paycheck after retirement every month.
Military Career
Cons
My man could be gone for up to a year at a time away from me and his family.
It can be a dangerous job.
No stability- we won’t be able to purchase a house because you never know where you’ll be.
Uprooting our family when we have to.
Moving far from both our hometowns
**I also must mention that my man has a five year old daughter from a previous marriage. The little girl lives in TX with her mother. If we keep getting uprooted it may be hard for us to see her. Especially if we get re-located overseas**
WHAT DO WE DO????????
I would love to get both military and civilian feedback…especially military wives.
Is it okay to NOT want to move on?What am i to make of all this?
Alright here’s the thing.Ive recently experienced quite a painful break up with a girl.We had been like really really good friends-best friends-and a few years back,we realized we had feelings for each other and we got together.
Now to cut a long story short,during that period,I had to face a lot of issues in my life.That kinda changed me for the worse as a person.I mean i lost a lot of self confidence,and grew very self centered and moody,and negative and the like.And to boot,i was not at all very communicative about it to her.
Maybe I did not realize it then coz i was being to selfish and all,but i see it now,that during that period she was really trying to help me out and pretend things were ok between us,even though it was not and even though she was upset that i was not telling her anything and i was changing for the worse.
Anyway,she broke up with me after a time when i was not really making any effort to get over things and continued with the same negative behaviour.And I cannot blame anyone else but me for this sorry situation.All those issues were of my own making,things i had a choice about.I realize how it must have been for her.And that being said,her decision to break up was right for her in every aspect.And in a sense,the break up was good,because it has driven me to an introspection and I now have better chance than ever before to change things for the good.BUt it really hurts a lot all the same.
Now the thing is,i cant help but hope that maybe one day in the future,after ive been able to sort things out and ive gone back to being a person with the right attitude-the person she fell in love with-she might-just might-come back to us and give us a second chance.And right now I feel like i DONT want to move on from her.I suppose the point is in gritting your teeth and just moving on from all that,but hell thats not how i feel.The way i think,for me,the point is in all about changing to be a better person,with a much better attitude towards things that happen around me.And then even after all that,there are no guarantees that she would come back to me,but all i would want is for her to be happy and good.It would hurt of course if she would not come back,but I know i would accept it without complaint,just because its her.But i really really cant see myself moving on from her,and coz I really really like her a LOT and i dont want to.
Am i being foolish in having a hope and in not feeling to want to move on or are my thoughts in the right direction?
Oh and also,before,(im kinda ashamed to admit this)i used to be afraid that if she would be move on from me or end up with someone else,i would lose out on the unconditional friendship that was between us.BUt now,I see that it was selfish of me and i feel guilty and ashamed,and not to mention foolish.I mean,i should have know her better than to think of something like.Maybe it was my loss of self worth and confidence that made me emotionally dependent on her like this?
Peace
-An anime loving,day dreaming graduate student in Mathematics-
There are advantages to the military retirement, as well as some of the other benefits. And while the health and dental benefits are no longer free for life after retirement, the Tricare premiums are so affordable that you cannot afford to pass that benefits.
Given that there are 6 Air Force Bases in Texas unless your husbands specialty is so specific, he could spend most of the next 9 years in Texas.
You need to figure out how much you can make at $70,000 plus whatever your husband could make now in the area where your father’s business is located. Then look at the $60,000 he makes a year now plus what ever you could make if you worked. If you could make more at your falther’s business is it enough to equal the probable $25,000 he would make a year if he reitred at 20 years as an E-8 (using today’s dollar figures, there will be salary increases during that time of course so the $25,000 should be adjusted up 2 to 3% a year to allow for the pay increases. Remember to consider that when he passes away his retirement will be lost, (except for a percentage to you should he opt for SBP coverage).
He could be deployed, and he could be injured whether deployed or in CONUS.
He could also be hit by a car in an accident after he gets out. There are always risks.
Consider also that there is also a risk that you could have bad business years and not make enough to pay yourself $70,000 a year.
There are risks and benefits to both choices.
Good luck with your decision.
Am I too late and Is this just a hopeless cause? Re-asking because I posted it way too late?
Please be patient its a very long one but all the details are needed to fully understand the story.
For the longest time I was in an unhappy relationship. Then I met this guy and we just hit it off. We used to work together and we become friends nothing more, we didn’t date or anything like that. We became good friends and naturally we started to open to each other. My relationship was already on the rocks it wasn’t as if when I met him then my relationship started to deteriorate. I am not the kind of a person who would do that no matter how bad things were or how unhappy I was.
I was very unhappy in my relationship then one day after a year and half I told him I wanted to leave because things were really bad and that is when he opened up to be about how he really felt for me. I didn’t know what to think because he was a really good friend but then when I think about it he always stared at me.
After a while I realized I had started to liked him too and he didn’t hide the fact that he wanted to be with me. He then started to ask me to leave but It was complicated and I just didn’t feel like I had a good reason to. We both knew that the only way we could be together was if I left the other relationship. But part of the reason why I didn’t leave sooner was because I didn’t want it to be about him. Then one time he explicitly asked me if I was going to leave him. I told him that I would. He moved to another state and as always he continued to ask me.
So after a year (we would talk from time to time and he would still inquire about me) I started planing to move closer to where he lived (and leave that relationship) so that we could finally be together but I wanted to make it a surprise. So since it was a surprise I just told him I wanted to visit and he seemed really excited so I jokingly asked if his status had changed and to my surprise he said it had but then he said I could still visit then I said I would not. At which point I said so you have found someone then he said no there are no guarantees in relationships.
So we didn’t talk for a while as you can imagine then the next time we talked he said he wanted to come but I was still upset with him so I didn’t react or anything then we didn’t talk for a while yet again. The next time he was still inquiring and I had not left then either at which point he told me he was moving in with his girl friend. I tried to be a friend and wished him the best but its hard to be friends with someone you are in-love with.
So the unhappy relationship took for the worst and I now finally left. Then maybe 6 months after he had told me about the move in and after ending my relationship, I told him and he got really excited and told me that he would be coming to visit me as soon as I got my apartment ready (living with a friend right now). I was so excited and I said yes. He said as soon as I move into my own place I should tell him and he will buy a ticket to come and visit.
The problem is. I am in-love with him like he was all that time he waited for me but I don’t want to be the girl on the side and I really don’t see the point in him coming if he is still with the other girl. I know I am not entirely innocent in this situation and yes I know I waited way too long to leave to be with him but even if it has taken this long I am now more than ever strongly in love with him.
Since the time I told him that I had left, the GF has not come up in any of the topics. So should I bring up the girl friend? I guess I just don’t. I am just confused why he wants to come if he has found someone else because I am not ready to be just friends. I mean I don’t mind talking to him from time to time but seeing him in person is another thing. Am I too late, should I just forget about him and move on? Is is a hopeless cause? So hopelessly in love and don’t know what to do. Help
PS cheating is out of the question.
Guy certainly ins’t a Player. Player is much more than just a guy chasing women 24/7.
That guy should be a father first, then a divorced guy, then anything else.
His kids and their staiblity is what should be on his mind, and not some random girls he’s flirting with like he’s 16 again.
Who was wrong? He was. Now it’s your turn to show him how to be mature and tell him to shape up before he loses you as a friend too.